Before we begin, take a look around. How many trophies do you have? What about ribbons, metals, certificates, diplomas, degrees, even report cards? How many are framed and hanging on the wall of an office or on the refrigerator door? And how hard did you have to work to get them? Now consider the fact that one day all of those things will rust, decompose or in some way, return to the minerals that they were originally made of. They are a perishable and temporary monument to the work that you put into them. I don’t mean to say that they were not well deserved or that there is anything wrong with having them, but the fact is that one day they will be gone along with the memories of what they were for. While there is nothing wrong with having something to show for your accomplishments, it’s important that we understand what the true riches are.
Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize. Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last; but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. Therefore, I do not run like a man running aimlessly;’ I do not fight like a man beating the air. No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize.
1 Corinthians 9:24-27
I wanted to make the point above to emphasize the importance of what we are talking about. The diplomas and trophies that most of us have were not easy to get. We put many hours of training and studying into them and they are a testament to our achievement. Our walk with Christ should not be any different. In the above verse, Paul was talking to the Corinthians about why he lives his life the way he does; to spread the gospel. But I think that the point he makes applies to the way all Christians live. According to 2 Corinthians 5:10 we will all have to give an account of our lives to Christ and receive what is due, whether good or bad. If that is the case, why would we not put at least, if not more effort into training ourselves to be stewards then we did to get our perishable rewards. Paul likens his personal training to that of an Olympic athlete to show that if a crown that will not last (in ancient times Olympic athletes won crowns of leaves, not metals) is worth the incredible determination that it takes to earn, then the rewards that we receive as good stewards will be worth much more.
How, then, do we start down this path of training? The first thing is to understand that everything that we have, money, talents, time, the very bodies that we live in do not belong to us, but to God. He has placed us in charge of managing them and left us directions on how he wants them used. We will go into more detail about what he wants us to do with them in later posts. The first thing we need to do to get on the right path is to find out what we are already doing with them.
Find Out Where Your Money Is Going
Yes, even before we tackle the almighty budget we have to find out how much we have to manage and where it is currently going. I’m going to start from bare basics here because I know that most people are not taught how to file, manage bills or keep track of spending in school. I wasn’t. So here is how we begin.
Start An Organized File System. – First off, if you are married, there has to be someone who is ultimately accountable for the money and bills. If you both work on them that’s fine but at least one person has to have all the info, all the time. In my house, I do this job. My wife did it for years while I was in the Navy and out to sea but recently we swapped. She is always welcome to help, but I have to be updated on everything that happens. The person, who is responsible for this, is also accountable to their partner for it so don’t take the position lightly.
Here is how my wife and I have things set up. First, everyday she gets the mail while I am at work. Anything that comes from a company that we pay money to (including bills, bank statements, charitable organizations) gets immediately put in a folder that is hanging on the door to our home office (you can use anything as long as you both know what it will be. We just did it this way so that things didn’t pile up on our desk). Then, every day when I get home I go through the mail in the folder. Any junk mail is thrown out and any bills are placed in a pile. I then go through the bills and mark the amount owed and to whom on my Google Calendar. You can use any calendar for this, I just prefer Google because I can check it anywhere I’m at. Be sure you put this info on the day that the bill is due, not the day you received it. Then the unpaid bills go into another folder labeled “Unpaid Bills” to sit until they have been paid.
All in all, this takes maybe 10 minutes a day if you get a lot of bills. Most days, it won’t even take five.
Here’s another trick though. When you put your bills on Google calendar be sure to click on “create event” and check the box that says “all day event”. This way it will show up on your calendar as a solid bar that is easy to see. Once the bill is paid, we will unclick that box (it doesn’t matter what time it’s listed for) and it will become just normal text in the box. I also put the date it was paid in the event details so that I can come back later. This is an easy way to know at a glance what bills have been paid and which ones haven’t. But we’ll talk about that more later.
For the sake of the length of this post, we’re going to stop here for now but let’s do a quick recap.
You will need:
- 2 folders (or other document organizer)
- A Google account and Google calendar
1. Every day, put any mail from anyone that you pay money to in a folder labeled “Mail”
2. Open the mail, throw out junk and find the bills
3. Immediately list the amount due, the day it’s due, and to whom on Google calendar
4. Put all bills in a folder labeled “Unpaid Bills”